A message to Bob and all others
Dear Bob,
I know that the loss of family and friends is devastating - and questions are rarely answered - no matter to whom those questions are posed. But there is one certainty that I can share, and this website, and the work of Dweezil and the ZFT stand as absolute testament to this truth: through memory, people do not die. My father, whom I loved and lost over five years ago is with me every day. Whenever I am joyful, I know exactly what he would have said. When I fail, I know how he would have guided me. We converse daily and I am not certifiable -- I am lucky. The music of Frank is as alive today as the day he put pen to manuscript. Dweezil's solos are his own, but we all hear Frank's fingers through them as well. And we all know what "putting eyebrows" on something means, and we all know whose eyebrows were the original ones. The great poet Hannah Senesh once wrote:
"There are stars up above,so far away we only see their light long after the star itself is gone; and so it is with people that we loved, their memory keeps shining ever brightly though their time with us is done. But the stars that light up the darkest night - these are the lights that guide us. As we live our days, these are the ways, we remember. We remember."
That gets me out of bed each morning and gives me hope each night.
Gary


so true... thanks.
Well put. I was moved by Bob's openness and his ability to reach out to the members here as well. I do it all the time, every now and then there is someone who does not wish for such personal notes but I feel without us sharing ourselves with one another we are just another group of people who surf the net.
I choose to believe we all ( the members who have found their way here to DZW) are just a little different than the rest. We are the ones who put on eyebrows as Gary says.
Thanks for this blog Gary and thank you Bob Elias for sharing what it inside of you as well.