last night wa my first ZPZ show (I did see Frank), but it won't be my last, I will see you every time you play in Toronto, guaranteed! Now if you could just bring the girls on tour with you, you would have it all!!
Having spent a couple of years as a single dad trying to balance parenting and music your blog entry has certainly struck a chord with me. All the best with all your endeavours, especially the happiness bit!
I had no idea... my sympathy 4 this drastic change.
Like I mentioned, I work as a coach and can highly recommend "Return to love" by Marianne Williamson 4 building a pleasant relationship with oneself and making (emotionally) smarter decisions in the future. YOU GO!
"You can't keep the waves from rolling in, but you can learn 2 surf."
Finally...for months have had trouble activating the site! Today it decided to work! Yea! Dweezil, so much I want to say, I may be wordy...You've been referring to your personal challenges this past year...Often thought, when I would attend a performance, about how difficult it must be to produce this tribute to your Dad, while being husband & father. The first time I saw you perform, you brought Zola (then 2) out on stage to introduce her. I was already in awe of your musical performance, really appreciating the effort you had put into learning your father's music! But when you brought her out, I could feel what a down to earth & sincere person you were. It really made me feel emotional, as I thought, "They are my family. I wish Zola could meet her little cousins & you could know the family, who was so close to your Dad when he was younger." Then, I saw you, in concert, a month after my Mom died, & all I could think of was, when your parents die, you grasp to find a way to keep them alive within yourself. There you were, on stage, keeping him alive & with you & also, for thousands of his fans. You, your family & his fans lost him, …Read more
Finally...for months have had trouble activating the site! Today it decided to work! Yea! Dweezil, so much I want to say, I may be wordy...You've been referring to your personal challenges this past year...Often thought, when I would attend a performance, about how difficult it must be to produce this tribute to your Dad, while being husband & father. The first time I saw you perform, you brought Zola (then 2) out on stage to introduce her. I was already in awe of your musical performance, really appreciating the effort you had put into learning your father's music! But when you brought her out, I could feel what a down to earth & sincere person you were. It really made me feel emotional, as I thought, "They are my family. I wish Zola could meet her little cousins & you could know the family, who was so close to your Dad when he was younger." Then, I saw you, in concert, a month after my Mom died, & all I could think of was, when your parents die, you grasp to find a way to keep them alive within yourself. There you were, on stage, keeping him alive & with you & also, for thousands of his fans. You, your family & his fans lost him, way to early, and you found a way to keep him alive, as though he is still with you every day! It amazed me, as I had just gone through struggling to hold on to my own Mom. I think ZPZ is an incredible accomplishment & tribute! But also, you've been talking about how hard it is to be away from the girls...finding the balance won't be easy, but remember, their milestones are only going to happen once, don't miss them all, you can't get them back! ZPZ came out of the love you had for your Dad. There is no doubt, it is hard to find balance for both things that you love the most in life! See you 9/19 at the dedication & concert! I sent for my VIP ticket & we'll have family & friends there for the big day!
Isn't it amazing how the little buggers completely consume every bit of your being ? lol As a fan of yours for (almost) 25 years now, I want to wish you happiness and hope you can find the balance that you wish for in your personal and professional lives.
I need to dig up some pictures of the two of us from a St Patrick's Day radio appearence with Kevin Matthews from 1994. It was a pretty cool appearence. You sat in with the band and did 'Peaches' and then (in very short notice) jammed on Frankenstein with Dave Urich.
Dweezil, I'm glad I've found this site. I am a big Frank (and Dweezil) fan and luckily got to see FZ many times live. I've seen your ZPZ shows as often as I could over the past few years (I live in France and UK) and was at Brighton a couple of weeks back for your show. (Saw Frank there too many moons ago!) Great gig!!! Sorry about the idiot who gave you a hard time at the end - he was a jerk! You handled him with good grace and diplomacy. Not all us Brits are as rude and stupid as he was!!! I'm really looking forward to the London Roundhouse event in early November and will be travelling from France for the weekend specially. What a great idea to showcase Frank's work then and have such an interactive program! Have a great time with your family, re-charge those batteries and see you in November! cheers, Tom
Dweezil, I think what you are doing is absolutely magical. You are keeping your father's music alive, along with adding your own magical twist to the mixture. After reading this blog, you come across as such a sincere person and I am sure that your daughters will always know how much they are loved by you.
On another more musical note, I am about to learn the accordion. It's an unusual instrument to learn - I know, but having just finished my degree I wanted a new challenge. Do you have any advice on learning a new instrument? And also, when will you next be heading across the big lake to the UK? You are deeply loved over here by myself and many a Brit.
Thank you......for your committment to your daughters and to the Music. I totally understand what has put you in this space; I tried to make a go of it in a similar field for 30 years, and it has worked for me, but at what cost..... I thank God for my boys' understanding of what it took for me to try and make it work. No matter what, definitely err on the side of family!!!
seems to sound like you growing into great young man. your dad would be very proud to see what a good dad you are putting your girls first keep rocking.
I thought about your situation and your daughters while you were talking and taking photos with my daughters at the Westbury sound check. Being a dad of 3 girls (2 from my first marriage), I know it has to be tough being away from your girls. I'm sure you will do anything for them and everything will turn out great. My kids are still talking about that day! Looking foward to more ZPZ and your solo stuff...
Guy
Dweeze- YOU are quite a guy and I know yr Mom and dad are very proud of you justifyably so! Keep up the good work, spread the word and keep the music alive!
You Go man!!
Hi D. I saw you in Atlantic City on the tour, and when you came out on stage I remember being concerned about you looking a bit worn-out and at times seemingly distant in thought. I immediately sensed that you were either physically ill or that some other force was draining you. At the time I wasn't aware of your domestic situation and later that night went online and read of your divorce. I'm sorry that you have to navigate through such a heart-wrenching process, especially as your two young children are involved. In a strange way I felt a bit guilty that night for even being at that show for the purpose of YOU entertaining ME - as I knew something wasn’t quite “right.” I do realize the effort you put into bringing your father's music to us is a complex, time-consuming, and daunting task to say the least - and quite evidently a labor of love for you. As if that weight isn't enough for you to bear, the added responsibility and desire to be a good father to your kids during such difficult circumstances would no doubt wreak havoc on every available emotion a man possesses. I know you hold a tremendous sense of responsibility to yo…Read more
Hi D. I saw you in Atlantic City on the tour, and when you came out on stage I remember being concerned about you looking a bit worn-out and at times seemingly distant in thought. I immediately sensed that you were either physically ill or that some other force was draining you. At the time I wasn't aware of your domestic situation and later that night went online and read of your divorce. I'm sorry that you have to navigate through such a heart-wrenching process, especially as your two young children are involved. In a strange way I felt a bit guilty that night for even being at that show for the purpose of YOU entertaining ME - as I knew something wasn’t quite “right.” I do realize the effort you put into bringing your father's music to us is a complex, time-consuming, and daunting task to say the least - and quite evidently a labor of love for you. As if that weight isn't enough for you to bear, the added responsibility and desire to be a good father to your kids during such difficult circumstances would no doubt wreak havoc on every available emotion a man possesses. I know you hold a tremendous sense of responsibility to your band, your fans, and in upholding your father’s remarkable legacy – but I hope you can find the space to answer what calls out to you, strike the balance in your life that you need, and find the peace and comfort you deserve in the process. You’re a good man, and there will be a day when the sun shines brighter and the shadows beat a hasty retreat. I wish you and your family the best, Dweezil. Please take care of yourself. PS – I look forward to seeing you in Baltimore for the dedication. I hope you can make it.
DZ,
I read this with some interest, as I worked away from home for 25+ years, and missed a fair bit of my kids early years. I had the guilt feelings you seem to be having; and can tell you that you will look back and realise that you are doing your best. You need to make a living, and you are incredibly lucky to do that doing something that you enjoy - and is enjoyed by millions of others!! You are a great guy, and I am sure a great dad. So keep on doing what you do, make the most of your time with your girls, and make the most of your life. After all, this is life, not a rehearsal!! Thanks for a fantastic night at the Sage, don't forget to come back and see us again. George
DZ,
I can imagine, sort of, what you are going thru since I have experienced it myself with 3 girls and 1 boy. I'm shocked as I didn't know 'til today 07-30-2010. All I can suggest is for you to seek the Lord! As He is the great "Consouler", Comfortor and Rest/Peace you are seeking in this time of upheaval. I do not know your beliefs, however, I was not a saved person until after my problems also. We all have a "God" size hole that we try to fill in many ways, whether we want to admit it or not. I pray you will find Christ, for He is the answer you are yearning for. I am not a Bible thumper, hardly. I find it hard to explain something that you must experience on your on terms as it differs based on the individual. I'll will gladly talk to you about it if you so choose. I want the best for you and your family as I have watched you grow up as a fan of your daddy since the early 70's. I'm 50 now.
May God Bless you and your family DZ, We (all fans) love and appreciate you and your tireless efforts! Sorry for any spelling mistakes. You have performed some of the best concerts I have ever witnessed, including Frank's, as I have seen b…Read more
DZ,
I can imagine, sort of, what you are going thru since I have experienced it myself with 3 girls and 1 boy. I'm shocked as I didn't know 'til today 07-30-2010. All I can suggest is for you to seek the Lord! As He is the great "Consouler", Comfortor and Rest/Peace you are seeking in this time of upheaval. I do not know your beliefs, however, I was not a saved person until after my problems also. We all have a "God" size hole that we try to fill in many ways, whether we want to admit it or not. I pray you will find Christ, for He is the answer you are yearning for. I am not a Bible thumper, hardly. I find it hard to explain something that you must experience on your on terms as it differs based on the individual. I'll will gladly talk to you about it if you so choose. I want the best for you and your family as I have watched you grow up as a fan of your daddy since the early 70's. I'm 50 now.
May God Bless you and your family DZ, We (all fans) love and appreciate you and your tireless efforts! Sorry for any spelling mistakes. You have performed some of the best concerts I have ever witnessed, including Frank's, as I have seen both.
In God's Love,
Lee
last night wa my first ZPZ show (I did see Frank), but it won't be my last, I will see you every time you play in Toronto, guaranteed! Now if you could just bring the girls on tour with you, you would have it all!!
Hang in there, pal. I go to as many ZPZ shows as I can, and I love seeing the band.
If your priorities change, though, I will understand.
You have no idea how nice it is to find out you are a normal (and insanely talented) guy. You're doing good stuff.
Having spent a couple of years as a single dad trying to balance parenting and music your blog entry has certainly struck a chord with me. All the best with all your endeavours, especially the happiness bit!
I had no idea... my sympathy 4 this drastic change.
Like I mentioned, I work as a coach and can highly recommend "Return to love" by Marianne Williamson 4 building a pleasant relationship with oneself and making (emotionally) smarter decisions in the future. YOU GO!
"You can't keep the waves from rolling in, but you can learn 2 surf."
Finally...for months have had trouble activating the site! Today it decided to work! Yea! Dweezil, so much I want to say, I may be wordy...You've been referring to your personal challenges this past year...Often thought, when I would attend a performance, about how difficult it must be to produce this tribute to your Dad, while being husband & father. The first time I saw you perform, you brought Zola (then 2) out on stage to introduce her. I was already in awe of your musical performance, really appreciating the effort you had put into learning your father's music! But when you brought her out, I could feel what a down to earth & sincere person you were. It really made me feel emotional, as I thought, "They are my family. I wish Zola could meet her little cousins & you could know the family, who was so close to your Dad when he was younger." Then, I saw you, in concert, a month after my Mom died, & all I could think of was, when your parents die, you grasp to find a way to keep them alive within yourself. There you were, on stage, keeping him alive & with you & also, for thousands of his fans. You, your family & his fans lost him, …Read more
Finally...for months have had trouble activating the site! Today it decided to work! Yea! Dweezil, so much I want to say, I may be wordy...You've been referring to your personal challenges this past year...Often thought, when I would attend a performance, about how difficult it must be to produce this tribute to your Dad, while being husband & father. The first time I saw you perform, you brought Zola (then 2) out on stage to introduce her. I was already in awe of your musical performance, really appreciating the effort you had put into learning your father's music! But when you brought her out, I could feel what a down to earth & sincere person you were. It really made me feel emotional, as I thought, "They are my family. I wish Zola could meet her little cousins & you could know the family, who was so close to your Dad when he was younger." Then, I saw you, in concert, a month after my Mom died, & all I could think of was, when your parents die, you grasp to find a way to keep them alive within yourself. There you were, on stage, keeping him alive & with you & also, for thousands of his fans. You, your family & his fans lost him, way to early, and you found a way to keep him alive, as though he is still with you every day! It amazed me, as I had just gone through struggling to hold on to my own Mom. I think ZPZ is an incredible accomplishment & tribute! But also, you've been talking about how hard it is to be away from the girls...finding the balance won't be easy, but remember, their milestones are only going to happen once, don't miss them all, you can't get them back! ZPZ came out of the love you had for your Dad. There is no doubt, it is hard to find balance for both things that you love the most in life! See you 9/19 at the dedication & concert! I sent for my VIP ticket & we'll have family & friends there for the big day!
I would love to hear Dweezil play Frankenstein..
Isn't it amazing how the little buggers completely consume every bit of your being ? lol As a fan of yours for (almost) 25 years now, I want to wish you happiness and hope you can find the balance that you wish for in your personal and professional lives.
I need to dig up some pictures of the two of us from a St Patrick's Day radio appearence with Kevin Matthews from 1994. It was a pretty cool appearence. You sat in with the band and did 'Peaches' and then (in very short notice) jammed on Frankenstein with Dave Urich.
Dweezil, I'm glad I've found this site. I am a big Frank (and Dweezil) fan and luckily got to see FZ many times live. I've seen your ZPZ shows as often as I could over the past few years (I live in France and UK) and was at Brighton a couple of weeks back for your show. (Saw Frank there too many moons ago!) Great gig!!! Sorry about the idiot who gave you a hard time at the end - he was a jerk! You handled him with good grace and diplomacy. Not all us Brits are as rude and stupid as he was!!! I'm really looking forward to the London Roundhouse event in early November and will be travelling from France for the weekend specially. What a great idea to showcase Frank's work then and have such an interactive program! Have a great time with your family, re-charge those batteries and see you in November! cheers, Tom
Dweezil, I think what you are doing is absolutely magical. You are keeping your father's music alive, along with adding your own magical twist to the mixture. After reading this blog, you come across as such a sincere person and I am sure that your daughters will always know how much they are loved by you.
On another more musical note, I am about to learn the accordion. It's an unusual instrument to learn - I know, but having just finished my degree I wanted a new challenge. Do you have any advice on learning a new instrument? And also, when will you next be heading across the big lake to the UK? You are deeply loved over here by myself and many a Brit.
Stay strong, Dweezil.
XXX
Thank you......for your committment to your daughters and to the Music. I totally understand what has put you in this space; I tried to make a go of it in a similar field for 30 years, and it has worked for me, but at what cost..... I thank God for my boys' understanding of what it took for me to try and make it work. No matter what, definitely err on the side of family!!!
seems to sound like you growing into great young man. your dad would be very proud to see what a good dad you are putting your girls first keep rocking.
It's the improv that is rare in this crazy society of ours,thanks Dweez for exciting us.
Well said Elaine. These are our people..
Sorry for your divorce, don't think about women anymore Dweezil !!
I thought about your situation and your daughters while you were talking and taking photos with my daughters at the Westbury sound check. Being a dad of 3 girls (2 from my first marriage), I know it has to be tough being away from your girls. I'm sure you will do anything for them and everything will turn out great. My kids are still talking about that day! Looking foward to more ZPZ and your solo stuff...
Guy
Dweeze- YOU are quite a guy and I know yr Mom and dad are very proud of you justifyably so! Keep up the good work, spread the word and keep the music alive!
You Go man!!
Ray Bungay
Hi D. I saw you in Atlantic City on the tour, and when you came out on stage I remember being concerned about you looking a bit worn-out and at times seemingly distant in thought. I immediately sensed that you were either physically ill or that some other force was draining you. At the time I wasn't aware of your domestic situation and later that night went online and read of your divorce. I'm sorry that you have to navigate through such a heart-wrenching process, especially as your two young children are involved. In a strange way I felt a bit guilty that night for even being at that show for the purpose of YOU entertaining ME - as I knew something wasn’t quite “right.” I do realize the effort you put into bringing your father's music to us is a complex, time-consuming, and daunting task to say the least - and quite evidently a labor of love for you. As if that weight isn't enough for you to bear, the added responsibility and desire to be a good father to your kids during such difficult circumstances would no doubt wreak havoc on every available emotion a man possesses. I know you hold a tremendous sense of responsibility to yo…Read more
DZ,
I read this with some interest, as I worked away from home for 25+ years, and missed a fair bit of my kids early years. I had the guilt feelings you seem to be having; and can tell you that you will look back and realise that you are doing your best. You need to make a living, and you are incredibly lucky to do that doing something that you enjoy - and is enjoyed by millions of others!! You are a great guy, and I am sure a great dad. So keep on doing what you do, make the most of your time with your girls, and make the most of your life. After all, this is life, not a rehearsal!! Thanks for a fantastic night at the Sage, don't forget to come back and see us again. George
DZ,
I can imagine, sort of, what you are going thru since I have experienced it myself with 3 girls and 1 boy. I'm shocked as I didn't know 'til today 07-30-2010. All I can suggest is for you to seek the Lord! As He is the great "Consouler", Comfortor and Rest/Peace you are seeking in this time of upheaval. I do not know your beliefs, however, I was not a saved person until after my problems also. We all have a "God" size hole that we try to fill in many ways, whether we want to admit it or not. I pray you will find Christ, for He is the answer you are yearning for. I am not a Bible thumper, hardly. I find it hard to explain something that you must experience on your on terms as it differs based on the individual. I'll will gladly talk to you about it if you so choose. I want the best for you and your family as I have watched you grow up as a fan of your daddy since the early 70's. I'm 50 now.
May God Bless you and your family DZ, We (all fans) love and appreciate you and your tireless efforts! Sorry for any spelling mistakes. You have performed some of the best concerts I have ever witnessed, including Frank's, as I have seen b…Read more
I can imagine, sort of, what you are going thru since I have experienced it myself with 3 girls and 1 boy. I'm shocked as I didn't know 'til today 07-30-2010. All I can suggest is for you to seek the Lord! As He is the great "Consouler", Comfortor and Rest/Peace you are seeking in this time of upheaval. I do not know your beliefs, however, I was not a saved person until after my problems also. We all have a "God" size hole that we try to fill in many ways, whether we want to admit it or not. I pray you will find Christ, for He is the answer you are yearning for. I am not a Bible thumper, hardly. I find it hard to explain something that you must experience on your on terms as it differs based on the individual. I'll will gladly talk to you about it if you so choose. I want the best for you and your family as I have watched you grow up as a fan of your daddy since the early 70's. I'm 50 now.
May God Bless you and your family DZ, We (all fans) love and appreciate you and your tireless efforts! Sorry for any spelling mistakes. You have performed some of the best concerts I have ever witnessed, including Frank's, as I have seen both.
In God's Love,
Lee