Just be strong for your girls. I went through the same thing about 6 years ago when my 2 girls were 5 and 1. It was rough but I got through it with them. Six years later they are happy and still working through it. They now have a new sister with my current wife and things are great. Wish you all the best and will see you in Westbury, NY in June.
Guy
I havent been here much lately so just got caught up on reading. Just keep busy with music, keep being the best daddy to your girls and be the positive person that you are. Here is to nothing but the best for you and your daughters.
I'm going thru the Big D now DZ and you are correct in your assessment....it IS pretty darn miserable.
By all accounts ( everything I have seen, heard or read ) you are a fine & upstanding Dad and things WILL work out before long.
hang in there buddy
Happened to me 19 years ago-realy su*ked, but it made me a better person-I know if anyone could come out of 'this situation' a better person, it's you Dweezil! The fact that you're thinking about your daughters first says volumes about you-and who you are! everything will turn out for the best-Let your daughters know that this in no way was caused by them-my adult daughter has told me that she thought she was in some way responsible for our break-up! Took me a long time to straighten her out about that. This really su*ks for both you & yer daughters-My heart goes out to you Dweezil!
Hi Dweezil, not an enviable position t be in, having gone through the procedure myself i can say that the positives far outweighs the later, my very best to you and yer fam goin through this difficult time
my parents got divorced when i was 7, rough times indeed, what i can tell u from a kids perspective of this situation, i knew there was something wrong and diffrent with how my mom and dad were behaving, but i still got plenty of attention, and yea, lotta time with dad, as long as nothing much changes between u and ur kids i think they should be fine. all the best, u gotta hang in there, thats pretty much it.
Hey Dweezil! I am very sorry to hear this. Just heard today. I am the son of two divorces in my family and I don't care what anyone says. Divorce may hurt adults. But it is a SUPER struggle for kids. My advice is to be the dad you are. If you are a good dad in your heart then there is nothing to fear. It sucks now. But your kids are REALLY going to need you in a few years when they see what's really going on. Just be there for them any time and the rest will follow. I got to meet you when you came to Sacramento and you were extra nice when we talked about our kids. I know you will be fine. Hang in there!!
Been there and done that, and it's just about the worst thing there is, but it does get better. Stay focused on what's important to you and your babies.
live in the now my friend. absorb all that is around you and take the moment as it comes. pain can be a good thing too. as odd as that sounds I have come out of pain the better.
Being someone who has gone through the same ordeal, I can honestly say that being a parent first always helped. My children got me through the toughest times and sometimes gave me the strength to do anything.
I know it sounds like b******t, but it will get better. This WILL make you a stronger and better parent and person.
I can't even begin to imagine what you're going through right now, but from everything I've seen/heard/read, you're a very positive person and will come through this with flying colors.
I'm sorry to hear about the turmoil in your personal life, I hope you're doing okay. As long as you keep your personal integrity and values and have your priorities straight things will work out in the long run.
I know how much it hurts and I hope for you the best in the days to come. Things have gotten better for me and I hope the same for you my friend. We are all here for you.
i am going through the same thing now,its tough but you have to keep moving,the music helps me,thanks to fz
Just be strong for your girls. I went through the same thing about 6 years ago when my 2 girls were 5 and 1. It was rough but I got through it with them. Six years later they are happy and still working through it. They now have a new sister with my current wife and things are great. Wish you all the best and will see you in Westbury, NY in June.
Guy
I havent been here much lately so just got caught up on reading. Just keep busy with music, keep being the best daddy to your girls and be the positive person that you are. Here is to nothing but the best for you and your daughters.
I'm going thru the Big D now DZ and you are correct in your assessment....it IS pretty darn miserable.
By all accounts ( everything I have seen, heard or read ) you are a fine & upstanding Dad and things WILL work out before long.
hang in there buddy
Happened to me 19 years ago-realy su*ked, but it made me a better person-I know if anyone could come out of 'this situation' a better person, it's you Dweezil! The fact that you're thinking about your daughters first says volumes about you-and who you are! everything will turn out for the best-Let your daughters know that this in no way was caused by them-my adult daughter has told me that she thought she was in some way responsible for our break-up! Took me a long time to straighten her out about that. This really su*ks for both you & yer daughters-My heart goes out to you Dweezil!
Hi Dweezil, not an enviable position t be in, having gone through the procedure myself i can say that the positives far outweighs the later, my very best to you and yer fam goin through this difficult time
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my parents got divorced when i was 7, rough times indeed, what i can tell u from a kids perspective of this situation, i knew there was something wrong and diffrent with how my mom and dad were behaving, but i still got plenty of attention, and yea, lotta time with dad, as long as nothing much changes between u and ur kids i think they should be fine. all the best, u gotta hang in there, thats pretty much it.
Hey Dweezil! I am very sorry to hear this. Just heard today. I am the son of two divorces in my family and I don't care what anyone says. Divorce may hurt adults. But it is a SUPER struggle for kids. My advice is to be the dad you are. If you are a good dad in your heart then there is nothing to fear. It sucks now. But your kids are REALLY going to need you in a few years when they see what's really going on. Just be there for them any time and the rest will follow. I got to meet you when you came to Sacramento and you were extra nice when we talked about our kids. I know you will be fine. Hang in there!!
Been there and done that, and it's just about the worst thing there is, but it does get better. Stay focused on what's important to you and your babies.
live in the now my friend. absorb all that is around you and take the moment as it comes. pain can be a good thing too. as odd as that sounds I have come out of pain the better.
Good luck my friend. You will be fine. You have tons of support.
Hang in there Dweez, Better days are ahead.
I feel for you and your family. All the best to you all.
Can someone please tell me what the heck happened? I've heard nothing!Is dweez and his family OK? Someone inform me please!-Roger Kratky
very sorry to hear this news. hope everything works out for the best for all involved.
Being someone who has gone through the same ordeal, I can honestly say that being a parent first always helped. My children got me through the toughest times and sometimes gave me the strength to do anything.
I know it sounds like b******t, but it will get better. This WILL make you a stronger and better parent and person.
We love ya Dweezil!
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I can't even begin to imagine what you're going through right now, but from everything I've seen/heard/read, you're a very positive person and will come through this with flying colors.
I'm sorry to hear about the turmoil in your personal life, I hope you're doing okay. As long as you keep your personal integrity and values and have your priorities straight things will work out in the long run.
I know how much it hurts and I hope for you the best in the days to come. Things have gotten better for me and I hope the same for you my friend. We are all here for you.